The Blame Game—Drifting to Denial

It's so easy.

Blame your parents.
Blame your spouse.
Blame your kids.
Blame your boss.
Blame your job.
Blame your friends.
Blame the government.

Blame, blame, blame.
It makes you feel better about yourself. It feels good. It feels satisfying, but it is so very dangerous!
Because BLAMING OTHERS is how you drift into denial. Once you get there you are DOOMED, because you'll never take responsibility.

That’s the reason denial never turns out well. You may work things out in your mind that allows you to believe that you are a victim and are not to blame for any of your problems. It may make complete sense to you…BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE IT TRUE.

Living in denial is something that’s understandable in a child, but unacceptable for an adult.

Don’t deny reality, confront it and deal with it. IT’S THE FASTEST WAY TO WHERE YOU WANT TO GO.