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Entries in defeat (2)

Thursday
Jan192012

No One Wins Them All

Sooner or later you’re going to lose.

Shake it off move on… Some people collapse in a heap, emotionally shot, devastated.

THEY CAN’T BELIEVE IT!

What did they think? That it would never happen? 

Life isn’t perfect, you will get your beatings just like everyone else.

Not only you, but your children, your family, your company. 

Hey, it happens.

You’ll survive. That’s what people do. It's part of life.

Later you may even look back and see the benefits.

So when it happens…don’t fall apart. Keep your wits. Learn your lessons and plot your return.

Defeat is not permanent unless you quit

So don’t get out of whack.

You lost a battle, but you can still win the war!

Wednesday
Jun082011

Kids, meet your competition

“Everyone from junior high students to Olympians runs faster when there is someone in the lane next to them.”
—Jeff Castolene

 

Value is established by comparison.

If you want to know how valuable something is, you compare it to something else. If you say this is GREAT, how do you know? Only by comparing it to something else!

This is not just true of products and services—it's true of people as well.

As we raise our children, we encourage them in everything they do, we want them to feel good about themselves. But as they grow up they need to realize that just because Mommy or Daddy said they are a great artist or athlete that doesn’t necessarily mean they are.

One of the best ways to help them realize that is through competitionThat gives them the chance to find out for themselves how good they are.

“Competition is not always nice, but it's necessary." —Art Williams

Competition teaches you about making your best efforts, it teaches you about pushing yourself. It lets you find out how good you really are by introducing you to challenges and stresses. It helps you grow by showing you how to work with others to get things done.

It lets you taste the rewards of Winning and the sting of disappointing defeats.

There is nothing like competition to prepare kids for the realities of the real world.