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Sunday
Apr012012

The Catch-22 of Why 'Self' Can't Win

Our Sin nature doesn't think it needs God

Our "self," the nature we were born with is rebellious. It's not our fault, we were born with it. It's been passed down from Adam and Eve and their decision to disobey God in the Garden of Eden.

The result of one trespass was condemnation for all men. (Romans 5:18)

Some of you non-Christians reading this probably are saying to yourself right now "no it's not,", but you're wrong and you know it.

Parents, what is one of baby's first words?
No. Why is that? Rebellion—they were born with it just like you.

Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. (Psalm 51:5).

It's a natural response, whatever you want them to do, they don't want to do. Otherwise, why wouldn't they at least once out of a hundred times say yes?

Which glass gets broken first?
Stand up two sheets of glass. Tell everyone "Whatever you do, don't break the glass on the right." So, which glass do you think gets broken first? The right. Why? The sin nature, the nature that rebels against any law.

I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing" (Romans 7:18-19)

For we know that the Law is spiritual, but I am of flesh, sold into bondage to sin. (Romans 7:14)

God says we must be saved—self says "no, I can do it."
Our sin nature does NOT want to admit it needs God. It wants to stay in control. It wants to forget about all of the lifetime of sins already committed and says to God..." Just tell me what to do and I'll do it".
When Moses came down from the mountain with the Ten Commandments and read them, the people said, "Great, no problem, we'll obey them, you can count on us! Amen, Hallelujah."

So what did they do?
They broke them all, over and over—backwards, forwards, upside down, inside out. Anyway you could break them, they broke them.

God knew they would
So why did he give them? To teach them about their sin nature. For them to realize they had a fatal problem. He wanted them to realize they needed a savior. Otherwise when Jesus came they would be saying what do we need Him for? We are doing just great by ourselves. Actually we do have a BIG problem and it’s no accident that the word sin is used 387 times in the Bible.

The Ten Commandments taught them about Catch-22 of Self
The catch is that although Self desperately wants to prove capable of living to God's standard without any help from God, it can't. It can't because it's nature is rebellion. So, as soon as Self is confronted with what God wants, even if it desperately wants to do it, it can't. Because its rebellious streak is so strong. Self may keep up an act for a while, but sooner or later it comes tumbling down.

In the very stubborn, that happens over and over
It's actually a very good thing for self to fail because that's when it's got a chance to wake up and realize it's fighting a losing battle. You've heard that it's insane to do the same thing over and over expecting a different result? That's what the Sin and Self nature controlled people do, caught in the losing battle of Catch-22 with the rebellious Self nature...life a dog chasing his tail, running in circles and never getting anywhere.

For what I am doing, I do not understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate. (Romans 7:15)

The way out?
Turn from trusting yourself to win this losing battle, and put your faith in God's way, the Salvation he provided for us all, the Lord Jesus Christ.

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.  (John3:16-17)

Jesus said to him, I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.  (John 14:6)

Thursday
Dec152011

A Thousand Christmas Gifts

Tony & Shelly NarainGifts for God’s Children

Tony & Shelly Narain are getting lots of questions from their kids: Mary, Betty, Kate, and Amy, this time of year about “God’s children.” Who are they? They are the children at the 5-6 churches they visit and take gifts to every Christmas. This Christmas is special because it’s all on Sunday. 

A family tradition
Shelly says that she grew up the daughter of a pastor who always wanted to make sure the children in the church got gifts on Christmas Day. He didn’t want anyone to be left out and I guess it didn’t matter that pastors don’t have big incomes, he still wanted to give. Once you start family traditions you never know how they’ll blossom and grow and it certainly has in this case.

Special Motivation from giving to others
This tradition energizes the Narain’s, their family, and friend. They are dressing up like Santa Claus and have lots of other surprises to make this an extra special event for the children. I guess it’s no accident that their business is also booming and you’ve got to wonder if some of that is related to the extra special energy and excitement they’ve got about doing something huge and special for others.

We can only thank God for the Narains and their example in inspiring us with a spectacular example of what the true spirit of Christmas is—sacrificial giving for others!


Let me know if you have any similar stories that you know of, so I can pass them on.

Wednesday
Jun082011

Kids, meet your competition

“Everyone from junior high students to Olympians runs faster when there is someone in the lane next to them.”
—Jeff Castolene

 

Value is established by comparison.

If you want to know how valuable something is, you compare it to something else. If you say this is GREAT, how do you know? Only by comparing it to something else!

This is not just true of products and services—it's true of people as well.

As we raise our children, we encourage them in everything they do, we want them to feel good about themselves. But as they grow up they need to realize that just because Mommy or Daddy said they are a great artist or athlete that doesn’t necessarily mean they are.

One of the best ways to help them realize that is through competitionThat gives them the chance to find out for themselves how good they are.

“Competition is not always nice, but it's necessary." —Art Williams

Competition teaches you about making your best efforts, it teaches you about pushing yourself. It lets you find out how good you really are by introducing you to challenges and stresses. It helps you grow by showing you how to work with others to get things done.

It lets you taste the rewards of Winning and the sting of disappointing defeats.

There is nothing like competition to prepare kids for the realities of the real world.